Making the bus monitor cry is very, very bad for your reputation

Making the bus monitor cry is going to haunt those kids for a long time

The latest viral story sweeping the web accompanies a video showing school kids cruelly taunting their elderly bus monitor to the point she cries. It’s shot by one of the kids and features the heartless and spiteful voices of four or five others who, emboldened by being together in a pack while the old lady is clearly alone, verbally abuse and physically prod her until she is in tears. It is almost unbearable to watch; certainly you don’t need to watch more than 4 or 5 minutes of it.

The reaction to this video has been both heartening (some $400,000 has been raised to send this lady on holiday or even pay for her early retirement in a matter of a few days) and shocking (how so many of the young people express their disgust in more violent terms than the original act – see the YouTube comments). Some are bizarre and ironic – like this one where a level-headed sounding young man condemns the bullies while casually blowing people away in his on-line sniper game.

If you follow the story through, you’ll see that disgusted classmates have posted the names and phone numbers of the offending bullies online. You can find reactions from the parents, from school officials and – reassuringly – from Greece, NY bus monitor Mrs. Karen Klein herself who was clearly hurt by the experience. My son signed a petition to demand that she doesn’t have to pay tax on her unexpected financial windfall and in doing so, brought it to my attention. I felt moved to send her a Facebook message just saying I felt for her and hoped she could put it behind her.  With luck, she will enjoy her money and the kids responsible will learn a hard, fast lesson.

All of which leaves me marvelling at the sheer speed at which both the kids’ and Mrs. Klein’s lives changed; not just because of an act of bullying (because that goes on all the time, all over the world without anyone seeing it) but because it was filmed on a phone for fun, found its way to the internet and then – from the point of view of the gang of bullies – went spectacularly wrong, spectacularly quickly.

The problem for these kids is that this foolish and cruel behaviour towards their bus monitor (someone who’s job it is to protect them!) is going to haunt them for as long as they live and have a significant impact on their future opportunities. However, a more immediate problem for them may be that there are people out there angry enough to wanted to shorten how long they actually do live. Enraging hundreds of thousands (if not millions) of people who know your name, your phone number, your school and can easily find you is NOT a smart move in terms of your personal safety alone. In terms of their online reputations, this issue has become international news and featured on so many sites that these kids have no chance of ousting the bad news stories attached to their names and little or no chance of even balancing that information with positive stories (assuming they survive this notoriety and go on to do anything good with their lives).

The morale of this tale isn’t just that bad deeds are always rewarded by bad karma, it’s how quickly one cruel and thoughtless act can damage your reputation beyond any hope of repair and in a way that will haunt you for as long as Google does what Google does.

So you want to bury that bad news about you?

Don’t. You’ll be wasting your time AND throwing money into a bottomless hole

If you do a search for ‘online reputation management’ you will find thousands of people offering services to help you avoid getting into trouble and to get out of trouble when your online reputation is in tatters. This sector didn’t even exist, of course, until Google came along so it’s very young and filled with young, social-media aware people offering a wide range of technological solutions to your woes.

You will also notice that ALL of these people offer the same two services. First, they offer you a reputation-monitoring service (often trying to sell you one kind of software or another). Second, they offer to use SEO (‘Search Engine Optimisation’) techniques to bury the bad news about you so it won’t appear when people search Google for your name, company or products.

These approaches are both fundamentally flawed and here’s why.

Firstly, the ‘reputation monitoring’ solutions are usually build by young, technically-minded, social-media-obsessed people. They are difficult to understand, configure or interpret for most business people above the age of 40. And even when they do make sense, all they do is bring reputation issues to the attention of more people. What’s wrong with that you might ask? I’ll tell you.

In my experience, almost every reputation problem has at its core a failure of communication skills on the part of the business concerned. Yes, that’s right: no matter how unfair your customers’ reactions might seem, most problems stem from a lack of listening skills, accountability, empathy, assertiveness or simply politeness on your part. Nothing about the reputation monitoring software sold to you will equip you with the skills the lack of which got you into this problem in the first place. Quite the opposite, in fact. Such reputation management tools don’t teach people how to interact with people better, they simply lead them towards technological solutions.

And that’s the second part of my objection to the dominant approach to ‘online reputation management’. If you do that search, you’ll see that everyone offers to bury the bad news for you. Not to help you understand what went wrong and put it right. No, to bury the bad news. Like a dog covering it’s poop. The same people who sold you the reputation monitoring tool will now offer to push the negative references to you off the first few pages and replace it with positive stuff.

What they don’t admit to themselves (far less tell YOU) is that this promise is a) impossible to deliver and b) completely undesirable for a number of reasons.

This promise is impossible because you cannot ‘spam’ Google indefinitely. No matter how many people in India you have creating bogus blog content online and seeding it with links to good stuff about you, Google’s algorithm is constantly changing to ensure a genuine ‘relevance’ value that will ensure the health of the advertising environment it offers its clients. Online reputation management spammers do not feature in this picture very highly. In simple terms, an online reputation management expert who promises to push off high-profile news reports on, say, the Telegraph’s website is misleading you.

And beyond that it is undesirable for the following simple reasons: firstly because the practice creates a highly-visible ‘whitewash’ effect – a pile of innocuous-looking and meaningless blog-junk floating suspiciously at the top of Google for your name / brand / products. Read individually, the casual reader might pass over these articles but anyone doing due diligence will recognise immediately that you’re covering something up; that you’re trying to bury bad news. And that smell of rotten fish will do more harm than the original problem. Remember, everyone can forgive you screwing up once in a while. But what will turn them away permanently is discovering that when things go wrong, you get dishonest.

And finally – and this is the bit that doesn’t even get a look-in from any online reputation manager that I’ve ever seen – this kind of behaviour is undesirable because in taking the ‘try-to-cover-up’ approach, you miss the biggest opportunity of all: the chance to learn how to do your business differently; how to demonstrate your ability to listen, learn and put things right. This passes up an opportunity to turn critics into advocates and enhance your reputation in the only way that matters: as positive word-of-mouth opinion from people who you have surprised and delighted. And nothing delights people more than a difficult situation turning into a positive experience that leaves them happy.

There are those who might say that if the average businessman with a stinging reputation problem wants nothing more than a quick ‘fix’ then it’s no surprise that the industry jumps to offer him what he wants. I beg to differ: first of all, I don’t think that good business people really do want a quick ‘fix’ when you get under the surface and second, it ain’t no ‘fix’ at all when you examine it more closely.

 

 

How much can you find out from a single phone number?

A huge amount.

Google search, curiosity and the experience to spot patterns

Recently, a caller left a name and a phone number on my voicemail, enquiring about online reputation services. As it was out of hours by the time I got the message I did some checking before I called the person back the next day. I thought that I would share this process with you to show you just how much someone like me can find out about someone like you from a single phone number.

It’s not the individual pieces of information that tell me about you, it’s my ability to read all of them put together; the patterns and connections. And because people generally don’t have that ability, they are also blind to the overall picture of themselves that they communicate through their online activity.

I first Googled the name of the woman who left the message but without any contextualising information, this search didn’t show anything that caught my eye. Nothing popped up saying ‘Jane Smith has x, y or z reputation problem’. So I then Googled the phone number.

That immediately brought up a business in the North of England – the kind of business that my experience told me would be quite likely to have a certain amount of unhappy ex-customers. Lets call it ‘City Solicitors’ (although it wasn’t a solicitors as it happens).  I then Googled that business name and very quickly found some negative comments about them in several high-profile discussion forums – including ‘MoneySavingExpert.com’. Ouch.

“Okay” I thought. “So I know the business and I know the problem they’ve got so I’ve a fairly good idea why they might need to talk to me” but I wanted to find out some more. I widened my search beyond the first couple of pages of the Google search results to try to find out a little more about this business and its history. Then I noticed something.

Link farms

Let’s assume that www.citysolicitors.co.uk was the company’s actual website. The thing that caught my eye, down on page 4 or 5 of Google search results was an entry with the URL ‘www.citysolicitors.org.uk’. That was so similar to the company’s own website that I assumed there was some connection (and my experience also flagged up that it was also likely to be a domain registered in an effort to help solve a reputation problem).

I clicked and went there, finding myself on some kind of WordPress blog. This site had the kind of content on it that told me it was a ‘link farm’. This content is typically text that is either generated by computer or cut-and-pasted by an offshore content-creator. It’s purpose is to fill websites that are not intended to be read by people but to fool Google ‘bots’ into thinking it is credible and relevant. I noticed a large vertical text banner that linked directly to www.citysolicitors.co.uk website. That was interesting. It confirmed that whatever this site was, it was in service of the company with the reputation problems whose employee had left a number on my voicemail.

I concluded that the blog was being used as a ‘link farm’ by an online reputation manager, being paid to try to ‘fix’ City Solicitors’ reputation problem.

I quickly discovered many more such sites with domain names that were variants of ‘City Solicitors’ and all of these sites were clearly being used as link farms.

Link text is the clue

The way that Google works is that for a page to benefit from an incoming link (‘link juice’) from another page, the keywords of the destination page have to be in the link text on the other page. SEO consultants and reputation managers typically set up hundreds of blogs full of vaguely relevant content and place, within that content and those pages, links out to other pages that they want to push up the Google search results for any particular key phrase.

Whoever was working on behalf of City Solicitors was linking to other pages – pages owned by someone else – and trying to push them up the search results. The aim, obviously, was to ‘bury the bad comments’ and push them off P1 of Google. This is what most people with reputation problems want and what most, if not all online reputation management ‘specialists’ promise. Except me, that is. I refuse to do it – and for very good reasons.

When a reputation manager sets up link farms he doesn’t expect anyone to read the content on them; in fact, he doesn’t expect anyone to see them at all. They are not designed to attract readers, just to trick Google. This is why, having created these link farms, the reputation manager tends to use them not just for one client, but for as many as possible – and this led to my next interesting discovery.

Steven White and his top 10 unlucky customers

I noticed at the end of each ‘article’ on these link farm sites there were a whole set of keywords. One of them, repeated again and again, article after article, was ‘city solicitors’ with the link URLs pointing to a range of ‘safe’ pages on other peoples’ sites. But there were more and very quickly, I had a list of his top 10 clients. To confirm my suspicions I ran each of his clients’ names through Google and was able to ascertain exactly what reputation problem each had and why.

And that wasn’t all. This reputation manager had decided that he should also benefit from his own link farms and there was his name linked through to his own website. I recognised it from LinkedIn. Let’s call him ‘Steven White’.

Bad online reputation management

To sum up what I’d found from a single phone number  (plus the knowledge that the caller was interested in reputation management):

• That City Solicitors had an ongoing reputation problem

• That they had employed Steven White to try to ‘bury’ the bad news

• That Steven had created link farms to try to muscle out the bad pages by boosting a range of good pages up the Google search results

• The identity of Steven’s top 10 clients and their reputation problems

What I was also able to conclude was that Steven’s techniques had not only not fixed his clients’ problems the way that he had no doubt promised he could (and that they had no doubt wanted to believe he could), but they had probably worsened them. Why? Because there’s nothing so suspicious to the browsing prospect than a cover-up.

I also can’t help wondering what his clients would think if they knew that their anonymity was blown as a result of the spammy techniques that Steven White was using on their behalf? The evil side of me was tempted to contact them and ask.

My approach is completely different. I show clients how to ‘own’ the story about them and regain balance so that the person searching can make up their mind about them. My way is credible, empowering and turns bad news into a real opportunity to be seen to learn and put things right – in the same public arena where those things went wrong.

If you’ve got a reputation problem and an ‘expert’ tells you he’s going to push the bad news off the top of Google, then you’re already heading down the wrong road and I can promise you that nothing good will come out of it except that you’ll spend a fortune making yourself look even guiltier and less trustworthy than when you started out.

Think about it. Seriously.

Reputation online: it’s how you behave that counts

All it takes is one careless reaction or outburst to ruin your reputation online

When it comes to online reputation, the single hardest thing for some people to understand is that everything you do online leaves a trace – and that people make up their minds about you and your business from the sum total of what they can find out about you.

As we all know, that sum total includes everything you say about yourself (your website, ads, press-releases and forum posts) and everything that everyone else says (blog comments, reviews, Tweets, Facebook comments) and so on.

Judging by the reputation management services you find online, many people think that preserving a good reputation is all about pushing bad reviews and unhappy (or malicious) customer comments of the first, critical, page of Google and replacing it with glowing comments that talk about how great they are.

This is borne out by the fact that most enquires I get about reputation problems are from people looking for a quick fix. These are the people who will end up paying a technical-sounding company to create a load of content to drown out the bad news in Google.  I don’t work with them for two simple reasons: firstly because you can’t guarantee driving stuff off the front page of Google and secondly (and more importantly) that efforts to do so always say more about you than the negative comments ever could.

Everybody makes mistakes. Most people forgive a business making a mistake and honestly owning up to it and looking to work with the customer to put it right. However, all my experience in online reputation and customer services shows that the one thing that customers won’t forget – that will drive them to actively look for ways to punish you – is not listening to them when things go wrong.

Trying to hire an offshore agency to ‘bury the bad news’ for you is a sure-fire way to communicate to customers that you’re the kind of person who will try to cover up your mistakes rather than face them.

In my experience, the smart move is to be genuinely transparent – and to do everything possible to convert the problem (there almost always IS something that you’ve had a hand in doing wrong) into a victory for you to demonstrate publicly how good you are at putting things right. Remember, your customer wants resolution and for you and him/her to be happy far more than they want to be in conflict with you. The smart way to preserve and build on your online reputation is to keep this fact in mind at all times – and to use it to your advantage.

Peninsula Hotel: attention to detail = great online reputation

A tiny detail this morning motivates me to blog positively about the Peninsula Hotel in Hong Kong

This morning, in my friends apartment in London, I was ironing my shirt ready for a business meeting later in the day. When I came to the collar, I noticed those little plastic ‘stiffener’ tabs you find in place when you first buy the shirt. ‘Hang on…’ I thought ‘This shirt is a couple of months old. I don’t remember those tabs still being there…’

Of course, they weren’t – at least not until last week when I stayed in the 5* Peninsula Hotel in Hong Kong on a business trip. Even before I reached down and pulled out one of the tabs I already knew it would have ‘Peninsula Hotel Hong Kong’ emblazened proudly on it. It did.

When I put my shirts in to be pressed at the Peninsula Hotel, they came back pressed, beautifully presented and equipped with little extra ‘temporary’ cuff-links, just in case I was missing some. And one more little plastic marketing gem, hidden away until this morning. Great customer service = great marketing.

That, folks, is how online reputation works. There is no other way.

ORM tip: careful what you do with your email address

What you do – and say – with your email address can play an important role in your online reputation

Do you know where you left your email address online?

If the answer to that is no, you better go and do a quick check.  Do an exact search for your own email address in Google (don’t forget to put ” “s either side of your email address).

What did you find?

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Online reputation management: do it yourself

You don’t need sophisticated or expensive packages to monitor and manage your online reputation

It’s not rocket science – you just need the tools that your prospects have got (i.e. Google); the ability to think like them, a dose of humility and a crash course in not being reactive.

Oh, and you need to know there’s a difference between monitoring and managing your reputation.

Online reputation monitoring

The simplest advice for monitoring your online reputation is to start with the FASTEST (and therefore potentially most damaging) channels out there:

1) Set up Google alerts for your name, your company name and products and brands.  Sit back and let Google bring the good – and bad – news to you whenever it hears you being mentioned online.

2) While you’re waiting for Google Alerts to bring you news, go to Twitter and search for your name, your company name and your brands.  It’s the most ‘real-time’ network / source of content there is.  If people are going to rant at the point of dissatisfaction, they’re going to do it via their mobile, and they’re probably going to do it on Twitter.

3) If that’s all clear, next do a search in Google.  Do a broad web search first.  See what comes up in the first couple of pages of Google.  Hopefully, a lot of it will be your web site pages and things you’ve done to market and promote yourself and your products.  If not, sack your web designer :-)

Remember: people use blog posts and forum posts to vent their anger or dissatisfaction. Learn to recognise how these posts and comments appear in the regular web results.

4) To focus entirely on blog content, do a dedicated Google blog search

5) Most of all, learn to think like a customer – an angry one and a prospective one.  When an unhappy customer wants to nail you for not listening,  they’re going to nail you by telling their trusted network how bad you are and follow up by publishing posts and comments online with words like rip-off’ ‘scam’ and ‘fraud’ to the end.  They want their experience of you to be found by others researching your company – and now they have the tools to do it within minutes.  Be warned; this stuff can kill your business in a matter of days.

When a prospective customer wants to find out the truth about your company, ‘XYZ consultants’, they’re going to start by searching for ‘XYZ consultants’.  Then they’re going to add the words ‘scam’, ‘feedback’, ‘rip-off’, ‘review’ at the end to see what comes up.

To manage your online reputation online successfully, you need to see these words as a code that customers and prospects use to bypass your own (naturally positive) propaganda.  So learn the code – and make sure YOU search the web regularly for these coded references to you and your company.

You wouldn’t believe how many companies’ reputations are in tatters online and yet they don’t even know about it.  It could explain that gradual drop-off in sales they’ve been seeing…

Online reputation management

Managing your online reputation priorities are as follows (listed in order of the amount of your energy you should expend on them):

1) Create the best products and services you can.  This is bleedin’ obvious, but the best way to create and protect a great on- and offline reputation is to do the basics really, really well.

2) When things go wrong, do everything you can to make your customer happy.  That means invite feedback, listen without being defensive, go out of your way to satisfy them

3) When you don’t do 1) and 2) properly, people will punish you online by Tweeting, blogging, forum posting and commenting anywhere and everywhere they can.  Count on it. When you finally find something angry / hostile / nasty (true or untrue) with your online monitoring (see the list above), the first thing you need to do is NOTHING.

4) While you’re doing NOTHING (i.e. not reacting, not getting into a fight to try to defend yourself), you should be getting really honest with yourself about what it is you might have done to create the situation.

5) Then you should be thinking about what you can do to put it right.  What you can do, and what you are willing to do.

6) Then consider approaching the disgruntled punter publicly (in whatever forum or blog his/her comment appears) and a) apologise for not having met their expectations b) apologise if you didn’t listen or respond to their original feedback or complaint.  Listen, I promise you, no matter how bad this makes you feel, you almost certainly didn’t listen the first time round.  If you can do this from a genuine place – i.e. that you really do care about helping this person to feel better about your company, you’ll be amazed what you can achieve.

7) If you’ve reacted dived in with both feet and made things worse, then call us to take the heat out of the situation on 01822 610841.

8 ) Start to create positive online content about you, your company and your brands to balance, and ultimately outweight the negative.  Beware: this only works when that content is genuine and credible.

Paying offshore SEO or Reputation Management Companies to flood Google with superficial stuff about you is a false economy (an expensive one at that!) – it will be transparent to any half-wit looking to find out what a company is really like.

If you want to do it properly, call us on 01822 610841.

TripAdvisor Bali hotel review singled out for ‘horror story’ marketing

Is Tripadvisor in danger of damaging it’s own reputation by exploiting negative reviews?

This morning I got an email from TripAdvisor entitled “Hotel horror stories you won’t believe”.  The first told of a live mouse swimming in a hotel toilet bowl.  I clicked the link and found myself on the TripAdvisor page for the Conrad Bali Resort & Spa.

picture-6The mouse-story reviewer slated the hotel with a negative review and a 1 out of 5 rating.  But a quick check of the overall listing for this hotel showed that out of 191 reviews, an overwhelming majority (138) rated it 5 stars, 35 rated it 4 and only 18 (a small minority) rated it 3 stars or below.

The fact that 38 out of 65 (!) travellers found the review ‘helpful’ is an indication of the potential damage that this review could to this hotel – despite its clear track record of excellence (above).  In addition, more than half of the 65 people who rated the review rated it useful - which means they take it seriously.

Someone at TripAdvisor thinks that this was a good marketing move.  I don’t agree. Using an email to drive traffic at a negative and completely unrepresentative review for a particular hotel doesn’t feel balanced to me.

TripAdvisor already has quite a few enemies in the hotel industry.  Some are simply the owners of badly-run hotels who have lost business as a result of reviews on the site.  Others are angry at what they see as TripAdvisor’s lack of accountability and regulation.  And some allege that TripAdvisor’s system permits – and then protects – malicious and fake reviews posted by competitors.  Those are serious charges indeed.

So, in that climate, I would have thought that TripAdvisor needs to do everything it can to maintain and strengthen its impartiality – and therefore, its credibility – not erode it.

I think today’s email was a step in the wrong direction.

Dominos CEO response to YouTube nastiness

Could Dominos have handled the YouTube disaster any better?


“It sickens me..” spits Patrick Doyle, US CEO of the Dominos Pizza franchise speaking of the YouTube video showing two employees farting and snotting on unsuspecting customers’ food.

Join the club, Patrick.

There’s real anger in Doyle’s video – currently standing at 329,000 views. How many the original video got is uncertain since it is no longer available.  I can’t help imagining the scale of the legal machinations at work behind the scenes from over the last few days of this uniquely modern PR terror strike.

What’s clear is that the situation forced Dominos Pizza to enter the world of social media -ready or not. In a few short days it has endured a baptism of fire and emerged on the other side, breathless but alive.  Doyle’s YouTube delivery was endearingly wooden but the outrage was real.

The incident seems to have – in true internet style – polarised opinion.  Judging by the comments on Doyle’s YouTube page this incident rallies the faithful and revolts the rest.

Could Dominos have responded any better?  Probably not.  Could they have monitored better?  Possibly.

The Great Dominos Pizza YouTube Disaster of 2009 is a clear demonstration of the power of social media and the importance of the three key elements of online reputation management: monitoring, evaluation and response.